five, the most important thing to me about friendship is sincerity. i don't care about how much money you own, what status you have in society, what car you drive, i just need to know you have a good heart, because with good heart comes good intentions and it builds a solid base in a friendship. even if mistakes occur or something fucks up along the way because of lack of judgment, I know and would understand that it was never malicious and never meant to hurt.
six, i was mocked/laughed at the fact that i was being naive/stupid for having think of friendship in such a manner but dude, unlike you I don't run my mouth unnecessarily and the only reason why I think of it in such a way is because I have observed and experienced it long enough to know what's important for me in a friendship. but i remained silent because i don't have to explain something to someone who will never understand it.
seven, but I forgot to tell you that I believe in karma and that everything happens for a reason. while I may not be an extremely strong believer in either religion, I believe that there is God and perhaps this was his way of teaching you how to have some humility.
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eight, define the meaning of sincerity? perhaps a direct proposition of honesty? being able to speak freely and opening about your thoughts, feelings, actions and emotions towards someone you would so-call friend? For many it is extremely difficult to be able to open up and pour out your soul, actual say that you look fat and ugly instead of covering it all up with fluffy adjectives.. "friends" that actually care will question your actions, will question your behavior. Not because they hate you, in fact the opposite! So maybe open your eyes and see the world and the realities of the world before you open your mouth!
nine, you're 21, how much could you have experienced and seen? I agree that most will need to experience cuts and bruises before they really understand and before they the penny finally drops.. hold your tongue, only time will tell which friends will truly stick by you when everyone else has turned against you; which will stand next to you when you have been labeled the black sheep and which will be on the other side laughing at you!
ten, its humanity not 'humility'! maybe its time to learn English instead of the Ethics and Religious education. Perhaps you should also watch what you see and do, just in case your own theory of karma bites you hardest when you don't even realize!
amelia,
you should stop lapping up the attention because this post was not directed at you.
eeefie...
i would still love u long time, weather u r a black sheep or white sheep:)
btw u haven't wrote me a list of dvds that you want me to bring back! =p
amelia: sigh and you don't really have to correct my english, fobs can't speak really well so u have to excuse my english proficiency.
i MEANT humility, the person i am talking about (which wasn't you btw, no idea how you thought this post related to you), but anyways, that person is arrogant when it came to picking friends and needed to be humble, so humility=humble.. wtf has humanity got to do with whatever i'm talking about in the 1st place.
and i think its reli sad u have to stoop so low to call me names like.. er.. ugly fob, fat bitch.. i speak bad english.. er, okay, whatever makes u happy. i don't feel inclined to explain these to you, i feel rather insulted that i'm being called names for something that isn't my fault in the first place.
sab: just like how i would love your eye too WTF.
erm.. at the moment.. i want "Coming Soon" wtf 1 enough ady la i aso scared i can't sleep wtf.
first comment: imo, it's extremely foul-mannered of you to be preaching about your disagreement over the contents of this post without leaving your name. i'm not sure what is your intention for remaining anonymous. maybe u're terrified of disclosing your indentity because you might look and sound like a braying animal if your friends happen to read about your ramble regarding humanity and your slander over the writer's English to which I personally think is totally out of context (that is if the initial intention of your comment was to build a constructive disagreement and not to embarrass yourself and/or make your life miserable by allowing anger to haze your mind and words). regardless of the what it is that the writer was trying to put forward in her post which you disagreed with, the fact that your comment came off as offensive, rude and distasteful instantly brand you as a hostile and angry person. do yourself a favour. foster some self-respect. you can start by not invading another individual's personal space in such ugly fashion. also, don't let anger draw your ego. once you've attained a cleaner mouth and a clearer mind, then maybe the friends that care about you might stop questioning you and start accepting you.
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